Who Gets the Engagement Ring?
A Quick Background On Gifts
The gift must also be delivered to the recipient. Delivery can happen through one of three ways. Those three ways are 1) actual delivery, 2) symbolic delivery or 3) constructive delivery. Actual delivery is just when the giver physically gives the actual gift to the recipient. Symbolic delivery happens when the gift is something intangible. Instead of giving the intangible gift, something else that symbolizes the gift is then delivered instead. An example of this is giving stock certificates printed on paper. Stock shares of a company are intangible, but printed stock certificates symbolize the stock shares. The last form of delivery is constructive delivery. That happens when the giver gives the means of controlling the gift to the recipient. For example if one were to give the gift of a car, they may hand over the keys to the car to the willing recipient. The car keys give the recipient the means of controlling the car.
The last part of a valid legally binding gift is acceptance. The person receiving the gift must accept the gift. Usually courts presume acceptance because it is rare for someone to turn down a gift.
What Does This Have to do With Engagement Rings?
A long-held tradition in our culture is that when one person proposes marriage to another, they often times give the gift of an engagement ring. Unfortunately, not all marriage proposals lead to marriage. Unforeseen circumstances or a change of heart can lead one of the two people involved to cancel the engagment. What then happens to the engagement ring involved? Was the engagement ring just a regular legally binding gift? Or was it something else that may allow the ring to be returned to the giver? States generally follow one of three ways of solving the problem of who gets to keep the engagement ring if the relationship dissolves.
A Regular Irrevocable Gift
In some states when one person proposes marriage to another with an engagement ring and the engagement is broken off, the receiver of the engagement ring still gets to keep the ring. An example illustrating this could be;
Conditional Gifts That Consider Fault
In some states, the gift of an engagement ring with a marriage proposal is seen as a conditional gift, and courts may look at who is at fault for causing the relationship to end. The gift of the engagement ring is made upon the condition of the marriage actually happening being met. Once the marriage takes place, the engagement ring gift becomes a regular legal gift and is irrevocable. However, if the relationship dissolves before the marriage takes place, courts consider who is at fault for ruining the relationship. Consider this example;
In this example, since Sandy was the cause of the relationship dissolving, Andy receives the ring. Now compare that to the situation where we switch who was the jerk.
Here, Sandy gets to keep the ring even though the precondition of the marriage happening was never met. That is because Andy is at fault for causing the relationship to end by becoming a jerk.
Arizona’s Way–A Conditional Gift With No Fault Considerations
The state of Arizona does not agree with the previous two ways. Instead in Arizona, engagement rings are seen as conditional gifts with no fault considerations. Under this approach, the court does not care who is at fault for the relationship dissolving. As long as the marriage does not take place, ownership of the ring reverts back to the giver of the ring. Even if the giver of the ring is to blame for the relationship ending, they still get the engagement ring back. For the example we will slightly change the previous example;
Even though Andy is the jerk in the example, he would still get to keep the ring. That is because the marriage never happened. For the engagement ring gift to be irrevocable, the precondition of the marriage would first have to take place. So for Sandy to get to keep the ring something like this would need to happen;
In this example, Sandy gets to keep the ring because the precondition of the marriage took place. Once the marriage took place, the gift of the engagement ring became irrevocable.
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